Honesty. You have to be first and foremost, honest to yourself. You have to listen to your soul and your intuition. That inner knowing. You must believe what you feel. No one can feel the connection for you and no one can tell you how to feel. Not a psychic or a friend. Not even your parents know how it feels to be you. So be honest with yourself — don’t force any feeling that is not there. At the same time, even though your feelings seem overwhelming and confusing, you must confront them. You must work with how you feel. You are not crazy or obsessive— it is what it is.
Secondly, you must be honest with your Twin Flame. Speak your heart even though it might scare them away. When seeking forgiveness, be as open as possible. Do not hide behind the Twin Flame phenomenon and what everybody says is either wrong or right. Trust your process.
You cannot control your Twin Flame’s behavior but you can control your responses to him or her.
I believe that what prolongs Twin Flame separations is the fact that we keep assuming what the other is a thing. We have so many expectations that are unreal. When it comes to solving our issues, therefore, we go in with so many assumptions and expectations yet, it is all simple — be truthful and honest.
Honesty also means that you back off if you know that chasing is only triggering the run and chase phase. You give your Twin Flame the space they need to work out their issues. It is also a form of respect and love for the other.
I hope that my perspective helps you with your question. Stay Blessed!